There is an old saying ‘Treat em mean, Keep em Keen’ and it’s not far wrong! Although you can perhaps remove the mean part from the equation. You don’t need to take it quite that literally. It relates more to being considerate in your offerings and not giving everything away at once.
Tease rather than squeeze
Giving pleasure by teasing is the ultimate gift and the perfect way to ensure your fans keep coming back for more. If you let them straight in the back door on your first meeting, they’ve got absolutely nothing left to look forward to!
For many, seeing a woman partially clothed is far more alluring than seeing her naked. Let’s be honest, that’s what lingerie was designed for. Plunging necklines, lengthy splits (which show off some or all of the legs) are the pinnacle of sexiness when it comes to dressing up.
However, even that can be taken to the extreme with some opting to put both their boobs and legs on show. According to some, a properly dressed lady never shows both, it’s considered vulgar!
So, how do you make sure your online fans come back for more?
Make sure that whatever you are wearing is comfortable. If you end up spending more time adjusting your straps, or worrying whether you’ve got ‘side boob’, you are not going to appear relaxed. As long as you are not contravening the sites regulations for nudity a little bit of side boob can be very seductive.
Make sure you try things on and spend some time seeing how different outfits work for you, especially when you move about.
Stripping, or changing your outfit can be extremely alluring if it’s done right. A little bit of practise in front of the mirror can work wonders for your confidence. You can even record yourself so that you can see the effect in various parts of the room and with different lighting. Remember how much light is reduced after dark, you don’t want your fans trying to focus on you in a dark corner somewhere!
Making the most of your best assets is key to giving your confidence a massive boost. Ensure your lighting, clothing and makeup create focus on that asset. If it’s your boobs, then make sure your neckline is the right one for you. A plunging cleavage can be extremely sexy and added to by a small amount of highlighter.
Check out some makeup tips online to make the best of the features you love and to hide the ones you are not so keen on.
Keeping your skin moisturised from head to foot is the perfect way to make you feel extra special and relaxed. Soft, unblemished skin looks younger. You should also try and keep out of the sun as much as possible. A healthy glow is good for the soul but too much sun can cause skin and health problems further down the line. Always use a face cream with a high SPF (sun protection factor) and wear a hat whenever possible if you are out in full sun.
Making notes on your users and fans is crucial to providing them with a fulfilling and memorable session. Sometimes, the simple task of noting down their user name and a few key facts about them is enough to get them hooked. The mere fact that you are able to say “Hi there Sean99, have you been thinking about my sexy, long legs again?” will have them chomping at the bit.
The more attention you give, the more loyalty you’ll receive in return.
Feedback is especially important. It’s an essential tool for persuading new users or members to interact with you. Don’t be afraid to ask for feedback during the session. If you don’t get chance, you should be able to contact them via the site to ask them to give some positive feedback about your session. Don’t forget, it works both ways – you should provide positive feedback too!
Don’t dismiss people who can’t spend with you right away. They may just be getting a feel for who you are and working out if they want to spend their hard-earned cash on you. They could be just days away from getting paid.
Be polite at all times because you just never know if and when they might be back with a full wallet. They’ll remember you as the one who was happy to spend some time with them (even when in Free chat). It doesn’t mean you have to give everything away for free though. Stick to your limits and those of the site and concentrate of getting to know each other.
Make a list of conversation ideas that you find interesting and be sure to include them in your profile. You’d be surprised at the different topics people love to chat about. Not everything is about sex and getting naked and even if a guy thinks that’s what he wants, you’d be amazed at how quickly you can turn that around!
Your profile is extremely important and you should keep it as up to date as possible. If you can add daily stories or quotes it can make all the difference. If someone sees that you are engaged updating your profile on a regular basis, they are far more likely to want to interact with you.
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Love Carla x